You might as well toss a coin as to whether you stay married or not.
Is that how you want to live your life?
You control only you so what do you want? What do you value?
What do you believe in?
Originally Posted By: farmer
But Im starting to think she has made up her mind.
You are already making excuses to fail
anything that starts with "but" watch out
what follows is your excuse.
Contact her once a week then. As long as it doesn't hurt you and you don't have expectations. Any contact that hurts you or takes you away from detaching I say don't do it.
She will contact you most likely. My W did.
Originally Posted By: farmer
I am a nice guy. But sometimes to everyone else. Do you know what I mean?
Yes i do. I don't think you would be here otherwise.
How does that relate to your W? How has he been toward you?
My goal is to some day be the person my dog thinks I am