I have always thought separation was for cooling off, stopping the damage before it gets too severe. And then see what life would be like without each other. See if you dont miss your spouse. No contact seems so drastic sp. Isnt some communication needed. She has referred to it has living separate lives. Well what does that mean. Living life like were divorced.? I dont get it. If thats what she wants than why stay married.
Truegritter, I know she knows that I havent forgotten her. She knows how I feel about her. I dont really feel right about contacting her. I will always respond to her. I think thats the way it should be right now. It is very difficult. My counseler says I need to at least text.her once a week to show that I am thinkimg of her. I dont always agree and dont always do it.
I am a nice guy. But sometimes to everyone else. Do you know what I mean? I am working on detaching. I think its what she wants.Time and space. But Im starting to think she has made up her mind.
