Truth of truth, I would prefer to be with my H (of course) but someone else who pays attention and makes me feel a little special will do for the time being. If I didn't get any feedback, it's like living in the world without any mirrors to know who you are, what you look like.
I think if you really want to move on and be single - you need to do this for you.
I've spent too much mental and emotional energy on keeping my head above water in this situation of mine, and I think I deserve to be happy now.
You do deserve happiness YC, I think you'll know when to call time on your DB'g, I still hope your happiness is with your H, because that is who you really want to be with.
Bill
Me 34 W 32 D 9 S 6 M: 9 years T: 12 Bomb: 02/11/12 EA/PA: 12/17/11 - ongoing Moved out: Oct 2012 Joint Filed for D: 2/11/13