MMF I am so sorry that we all are going thru this. The one thing that I DONT understand is How long can they keep this up? If they totally change everything they do, I would think at some point they would pick up the things they loved. My xh did away with things that didnt even have to do with me, like his fishing trips. He was a hunter/fisherman and a big t-shirt and jeans man unless he was working and sometimes he wore a nice short sleeve shirt and kak pants. Now.....totally opposite. Doesnt fish at all. New wife has him wearing sweater vests and the other day i passed him standing on a sidewalk and he had a skin tight muscle shirt on. Look so crazy. Must still be working out to please her. I have heard he follows her around and jumps at her every command. Anyway, I just dont understand why they leave EVERYTHING behind. UUNLESS they are trying to reinvent a new life. My heart still breaks for my family sometimes. I miss my family vacations. Its just not fair.
