Everything and everyone else in her "old" life, she did away with. She ignored the pets she loved, she didnt want her car, she didnt want her house, nearly all of her belongings (she did take ALL of the pictures which is a sore spot with me), and, of course, she didnt want me.
They have NO LOVE in them at all, all of this is the OPPOSITE of who they have been. It is a combination of hormones, depression, childhood issues. I have seen the same thing over and over.
I think the science behind this is the hormones. They are the OPPOSITE of what they have been throughout your marriage. More closely aligned to the way they were entering puberty(as a teenager). So she goes back in time to straigten out something that was wrong at that time.
If she ever get to reconnection it will be with things, then pets, then people and last with YOU.
Hope that helps,
P.S. Seeking Answers post was the one right before your link.
