I wouldn't think "how rude" I would think, he got the note, took it, and put it somwhere...he filed it somehwere in his brain AND he responded in kind

that is huge

but the important thing is


that you do these things FOR YOU

not for a reaction from him

but because THIS IS THE KIND OF PERSON YOU ARE

leaving little notes
smiles
extra cookies of his favorite kind

etc

because YOU ARE A KIND PERSON

because it is WHO YOU ARE

not because you are pretending to be someone else

get back to who you are at your core

let him see that person he fell in love with