unfortunatly this is not my first rodeo...with what I had to go threw with my S21 (special needs) I have become a pro and started documenting everything the day STBX dropped the bomb just to cover my bases and that has turned out to be my saving grace in this...because he has not spent any time with him since that day and has consistantly cancelled on him. My L has a complete log of all time since Sept/ 2011...

If I can just make it to the court date Im hopeing everything will take a huge turn. Ive decided that Im just going to wait till I hear from my L. she is very aware of my financial situation and has not said a word about me giving her any money. Im hopeing the judge says he has to pay at least half my L fees since hes the one that ran them up and I can figure the rest out then...no point in looseing any sleep over it now. And S15 and I have gotten use to tightening the belt over the last 8-9 months as STBX had checked out before I discovered the ow anyways...


Me:48 H:42
M: 18 yrs.
S: 9/1/09 due to alcoholic H
D bomb: 9/9/11
OW confirmed 10/30/11
D papers filed 11/01/11
S15 S21(Special needs) S28

Look to yourself, It is there that all your answers are found...