It is so true that no matter what you do she will see it as "holding on" or "being angry". Whatever, nothing you can do about that.

You have the right outlook, you need to care of yourself and not worry about what whats-her-name thinks.

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M 39
H 35
D5,D4
M 4
T 9
ILYBNILWY 5/18/11
Left 7/11/11
Divorced 12/1/13