Here is a little 2x4. It is very judgmental for you to criticize the flowers he sent. He sent flowers appreciate that. That is a lot more then many men going through a MLC can do. Right now your preference for a phone call is not going to get you anywhere. You need to validate what he does and validate his feelings.

Your reaction is not DBing

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M 39
H 35
D5,D4
M 4
T 9
ILYBNILWY 5/18/11
Left 7/11/11
Divorced 12/1/13