Please zig, let these people do what they will do. You concentrate on you and your son. Have no contact with any of them (H only about S) until you feel ready to do so.
Read KD's post again.
Don't let these other people control you or your choices.
Me 57/H 58 M36 S 2.5yrs R 12/13
Let me give up the need to know why things happen as they do. I will never know and constant wondering is constant suffering. Caroline Myss