Wendy, I am so sorry that she's still texting you. She is trying to bring you down and make you so angry that you will pick a fight w/your h and/or you leave. It's very childish, but that's what she's doing. She knows that your h isn't doing much in the way of arguing w/you or making you angry, so she's going to help the situation along. Please, please do not allow what she is sending you to get under your skin. She shouldn't be hurling rocks at anyone...she needs to take a good, long, hard look in the mirror at what she's done. She's certainly not mother of the year by any means.
As for your h, everything has changed and nothing will ever be the same again...and who is at fault for this change taking place? No one, but him. So, now he has to live w/it or start making the right decisions that will involve both you and him and not the ow.
Please take care of yourself.
Sit quietly, the answers will reveal themselves when you least expect them to. The past is gone, the present is a gift and you need to focus on today, allow the future to reveal itself when it is ready.
