I have not received any D papers and I guess the thing to do is not to ask, but to realize that they do not matter, that D papers or not the old R is gone,
This is part of the script, she is keeping her foot in the door and you are a backup plan in case things don't work out. Stay dark and let her control the contact. She must live her new life to see if it is what will bring her happiness. My guess is no, but only TIME will tell.
