But keep the focus on what YOU can do to be a better partner and h and try not to stare at her for her reactions
don't take the temperature of the marriage either. First off it won't sink in til later anyhow and please make sure you do the follow up programs....
but don't stress those to your w atm, just get her there and she'll hear other couples who are happy together but have been to hell and back...let her hear it without you constantly checking in...okay?
So get what YOU can out of it for YOU and the work you do as a couple will be important listening work, and communicating in new, safer healthier ways.
I wish you luck and joy and am cautiously optimistic for you... _________________________ That was from 25 to jlove who is also going to rv this weekend. some good advise. I wonder if you guys are going to same one?
