Seeking I know what you are going thru. It has been over three yrs. since my divorce and xh hates me. I truly believe this. If we run into each other the look on his face is panic. Quickly turns his head like he is terrified of me. My son lives with his dad and new wife and still does not speak to me. I long for the day where the hatred lifts and my son will get to see that his mom and dad dont hate each other and can be civil if needed. Like you, my xh got what he wanted and I left him alone. He got his divorce in less than four mths. I dont understand why all the hate? and i never will. Our son was made to chose because of this and i hate that. Son use to stand at end of driveway and ask me to not be on my porch becuase he was so afraid of his dad. I truly feel your pain. Even after three yrs. its still hard sometimes. You are in my prayers!
