waiting for the other shoe

[Truegritter]

I do not want her to think Ive.forgotten her.

Do you think she thinks this?

I haven't read your whole sitch but you seem like a decent guy.

Do you think so too?

Well then you probably are. Not that you can't improve...

As LBS's we take way more burden on ourselves and by the virtue that we are here seems to me that we are more in the giver category than the taker.

So which have you been? Which has your W been?

If she is the taker then your worries about if she wonders if you still care are unfounded.

If you were the taker then maybe it's time to show her something different.

My advice?

Just go dark. Silent. You seem way too attentive which is what she is used to and expects.

This is going to be tough because you will look on it the way you would feel about it. But she is a different sort it seems to me.

She is not like you. so don't use your compass here.

in fact do the opposite.

Can you not respond to her or actively contact her?

the goal is detachment.