b/c I'm a DBer I'd be open to seeing if he does any of the work, or all of it, that he needs to do. THEN I'd check my heart and head and be as open as I could be...
Ah yes...
This is the rub.
25 has given wisdom and the key to your salvation but it is balancing on the razor's edge.
The key to your salvation is your open mind and your REaction to his actions.
Actions?
They are the past.
What is important is the what is happening now and the future that YOU write based on your choices.
Look at your partner.
Hard and starkly.
Then forgive them their trangressions they are only walking a path same as you.
Then watch. From afar. detached.
See what they can do without you.
If
If
They show you a hint of what you think is progress...
Well
Then it's up to you.
And until it is still ALL up to you.
But be careful. Protect yourself. Be diligent and be purposeful.
My goal is to some day be the person my dog thinks I am