I know this is hard. You need to DETACH< DETACH< DETACH!!!!!!!
I fought it, struggle with it and now embrace it. When you find it you will be in an oasis of calm. Do what you can right now to get yourself centered and calm.
Nothing he is saying or doing makes any sense. Quit trying to make it make sense. Keep venting on here. Know that we are all out here pulling for you to get through this.
I know it sounds dumb, but splash some cool water in your face, go find a quiet spot, sit and breath. Think about just breathing and nothing else. Do this for a couple minutes and I bet you feel better.
Aloha,
Wendy
Me 57 XH 58 Sons age 32 & 27 M:32 D final 9/12 Bought 10 Acres and Living the Dream!
