I'm a little disappointed... when you said they were going to be long posts... I thought you meant looooooonnggg.....
I am not going to get into any of the details of your posts, because I am not sure that the devil is in the details in this...
What your H does from this point forward is up to him. No matter where he lived, it has always been that case... and so it always will be... even if he still was living with you...
In the end, the really question is...
Does your H having a house going to affect your direction moving forward?
Will you continue to grow and become an even better woman that only a fool would leave?