My H is back to blaming me for the breakdown of our marriage. He texted my son tonight asking if he was ever going to talk to him and then wrote that after months of him having my side of the story he wants him to know his side. First of all, I haven't spewed about my side of the story the boys. I've only dealt with the aftermath. Second, I'm the person he should be directing his anger at. Because my H didn't communicate his feelings to me he expected me to be a mind reader. How could I have known that he was struggling with us? He couldn't have harbored that much resentment since we were still doing things together, including having sex, right up to the time he left. So, are the reasons he citing now really what caused him to flee or is he remembering the bad parts of our marriage to continue to justify his actions? I need help understanding what's going on here.
