Tonight, half my children are at a restaurant at a party for my SS hosted by their father and the ow. I'm having a tough time with this one...
I have no words of wisdom but I know this is a very tough part of all this.
The senseless destruction of our families is hard to fathom. I am sure as much as you miss them you wiil also be missed at this gathering.
And at least you got a chance to spend time with him. This is one of the casualties of MLC. The family, it can never be replaced. The OW is not their mother and never will be.