Oh. One other thing. You'll need to get it out of your mind that you picked "wrong" or that something is wrong with your "picker." You should know by now that your ex's issues had little to do with you other than proximity. Don't let your past ruin your future!
AJ
"Our lives begin to end the day we become silent about things that matter" MLK Put the glass down... "Yesterday I was clever so I wanted to change the world Today I am wise, so I am changing myself."