ok, I will make an appointment with a L today. I pretty much know what she will say, my best friend just filed and I went with her to her first appointment (3 hours long). I have always been in charge of our finances, so he can't really hide anything from me at this point.


This ^^^ was perfect. Now back off telling him what else he "Should" do (or you'll be "shoulding all over him", a funny phrase but it makes a point).

ok, noted on the "shoulding", thanks.

( Your mc is beginning to remind me of the MC on First Wives Club.)

Is this good? Should I watch it? Need a good laugh today


The happier you seem (within reason) the more he'll wonder if this might just be HIM after all...

I keep trying to remind myself of that.

Thanks again:)


M 37, H 37
M 10, T 12
S 4
D 2
3/14/12 ILYBNILWY
4/2/12 H consults a L, files nothing
4/26/12 H moves to his new place

I do not want to have regrets