H makes "emotionally reactive based decisions" whereas I make my decisions on logic and reason. Hence he bomb "I just don't have those feelings for you anymore. I want a divorce." He is reacting on the moment and not considering how the actions of the moment will affect the outcome of the future. This has been so evident throughout our relationship. It has always been the one thing that drives me crazy!!
Yes! My H always says I see things in black and white, and I expect other people to be the same way. He's right in a way, and I've been working on it. But I did have to tell him that sometimes planning can be good and very needed.
