H makes "emotionally reactive based decisions" whereas I make my decisions on logic and reason. Hence he bomb "I just don't have those feelings for you anymore. I want a divorce." He is reacting on the moment and not considering how the actions of the moment will affect the outcome of the future. This has been so evident throughout our relationship. It has always been the one thing that drives me crazy!!

Yes, I need to think about how to approach this conversation. I may conoodle it for a while and post here for thoughts.


AT BD: WH 41, J 43; Bomb 2/5/2012
Two kids, one dog
D Final 6/18/14
J marries OW 1/24/15
"No matter where you go, there you are"