Thanks 25! Yes I definitely learned that at EE as well. In fact I have my support group tonight
I absolutely get what you are saying. We both said that this separation is about each of us working on our own stuff. He knows what his stuff is and he knows the deal breakers. They are fairly big and dangerous for my children. He is fully aware of what needs to be done and the rest is on him
I've not ruled out a medical issue, and hope he gets to the doctor to check into that. For now he refuses any AD unless his IC suggests it at some point, and continues to self medicate ( a deal breaker)
One day at a time is a great way to take this, and life in general
I am so glad to hear that your friends are going. I've shared the next workshop with some friends and hope that they will go. I have my name on the list to be on team but it hasn't been selected yet. Under the circumstances I will probably have to wait until next time, since the boys may need me. I will go to the graduation dinner though
Thanks for your insight, it is always appreciated and you make some very good points.
