I think you have a good plan of action from your counselor and DB Coach. I agree 2TP that you should know exactly what you want to say and how you want to say it beforehand. Keep us posted!
Originally Posted By: wishing, hoping
That is why whenever H would have ideas or plans and I would question the "what ifs" or "buts" H would say I was being negative when in reality I was just exploring the options.
This hit a nerve with me. Pick any day out of my M, and this could be my H and I. Not sure if your counselor's assessment would go along with my sitch, but I'd like to explore it a little bit more for myself. Going to post it on my own thread with my thoughts.
