Going to MC later tonight. Not too sure what will come out of it, but I emailed MC that I want to deal with issue of OM, and that its a boundary of mine, and if she's not willing to deal with it (ie: NC letter), then I'm simply not interested in pursuing this possible R any further. I'm aware of the possibility that if she still is in contact with OM, that she may not be willing to break contact. I'm prepared for that possibility.
Other than that, I'm just going to go with the flow. I need to find a balance between being patient, and putting myself in situations I don't want to be in. This S is no longer working for me. If she's not going to make the commitment to work on M, and ACTUALLY follow through with the commitment, then I'm going to have to get on with my life. That I'm also prepared to do.
I will do this in as 'DB' as possible. I will validate her feelings, and only put my foot down when my boundaries are crossed, other than that I'm willing to see what happens.
Still waiting on MCs reply to my email... might update before MC with his reply, and a possible change in some of my 'gameplan'.
M:28 | W:28 | T:4.5 | M:2.5 | No Children EA1 Uncovered: Jun 2011 EA2 Uncovered: 2011-09-29 S: 2011-09-29 I'm moving on: 2012-05-08 My story: http://bit.ly/K3ttPM
