Be careful of the pursuit. It will drive him further away if you go over board.

Have you consulted with a DB coach? If DB is the thing for you, you may want to consider a consultation just to make sure you are doing what is best.

Me51 W53 S17 S14
M22 T25
Bomb-9/11; A-11/11; I move out 11/11

It's easy to find our bottom, it is our top that requires cultivation.

Every rough spot adds to our emotional constitution. -Barney Fife