Not sure where to start, Part 2

[wishing, hoping]

Thanks, 2thepoint. I don't really have anything to lose, since he has filed already and says he is done. He wants us to stay close friends, so I guess I can talk to him as a "friend" and let him know I am concerned about his welfare. I need to be careful that I don't blame or shame him. I thought that when I talk to him would be a good time to bring up what Leni told me to tell him. "I don't think divorce is the answer, but I love you enough to let you go, if that is what you really want."

I also thought about writing a letter since I can maintain my cool better in the written form. I have always loved to write. Since the bomb I have started keeping a journal, writing poems and thoughts down and it is very therapeutic. That way, as well, he can have the letter to re-read and hold onto. He cannot change what I have said because it is in black and white. He cannot re-create history.