I am reading a book right now called "Cut Loose: (Mostly) Older Women Talk About the End of (Mostly) Long-Term Relationships"
Short horrer stories, okay really essays, about different womens experiences in being broken up with. Sadly it is helping me, a lot. So far only one of the stories ends with the couple getting back together years later and being happier than ever. Which I have come to view as the Holy Grail of getting dumped.
Anyway, just like reading our forums here, it is the same story over and over. Which is helping me to accept the inevidable.
I did grumble to H last night and this morning about OW and her crazy stuff. I told him if I'm not privy to what is going on in his life, he needs to quit sharing what is going on in mine with OW.
I was writing in my journal, and I realized that I need to get more separated. I don't know how. I might start spending weekends on the boat. Somethings gotta give!
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