Has he been able to change your mind to see the issue as he sees it?

You know his thoughts on it. Why do you keep discussing it with him?

Accept what is, he doesn't agree with your assessment, you don't agree with his and the truth is probably somewhere in the middle.

Work on what you can work on...you.

You don't need his help to help your son. Yes, it might be better but you have no control of that.

Me 57/H 58
M36 S 2.5yrs R 12/13

Let me give up the need to know why things happen as they do.
I will never know and constant wondering is constant suffering.
Caroline Myss