Only you can decide that, as long as you want to save your marriage you can continue to DB regardless of what H does. When you decide you are done, then you are done regardless of what H does. It's all about you.
Even if you decide to stop wanting to reconcile, continue to post as you get your feet back under you. It helps to vent and to journal. No one is going to judge you poorly for deciding you're done.
Accuray
Married 18, Together 20, Now Divorced M: 48, W: 50, D: 18, S: 16, D: 12 Bomb Dropped (EA, D): 7/13/11 Start Reconcile: 8/15/11 Bomb Dropped (EA, D): 5/1/2014 (Divorced) In a New Relationship: 3/2015
