Make sure you fill that suit case with stuff you know she is going to ask for.... To save the next 3 or 4 trips she will plan on making.
I quote myself
You will become amazed at how contact is initialized. To see if your still pining away.
Could be some cd that has not been listened in ages. It will become the sole focus of her life with you. Full of anger and spite when you just choose to ignore it.
I just ended up putting a stop to it. And said. No more. I put all her stuff in garbage bags that was truly her's. Put them in the garage. And said. Nothing else will leave this house. If you want the remainder of your things. I will put them outside for you to gather up.
Ladybug got the hint. And stopped asking for dvd's , some thing from 20 years ago in the basement... etc...
As each time after that I said. NO or just ignored.
Flowers always make people better, happier, and more helpful; they are sunshine, food and medicine for the soul. unconditional love is awesome!
