New Day Rising

[greatwhitenorth]

Thanks for the feedback, Seeking. You're probably right.

This new behaviour pretty much mirrors what Snodderly described in an old post (2003, I think) about reconnection, so I got hopeful. She did point out that the process takes quite a long time though.

H hasn't called about his hunting gear yet and the week is almost over. I haven't dealt with his mail yet...other things on my mind.

Not only was yesterday my anniversary, I also received notice that I have to find a new job. The timing couldn't have been much worse. I'm lucky in that the severence is good and I have some time, but the bad thing is that if I don't end up with the same salary I'll have to look at selling my house.

I fear for my mental health should this occur. Three major life changes in the course of a year is too many. Not to mention the absence of someone to hold you, tell you it will be OK, and work through it with you.