Hey guys,

After all that we've been through, what would a mutual and loving relationship look like to you now?

What would be a deal breaker?

If starting completely over with a new person, what would you look for in a person that would interest you enough to consider taking the relationship further?

Physical attraction? Lust? Friendship? Companionship? Mental attraction?

This has been on my mind for a while. Since we're in control of ourselves and our lives, and can make it anything we want, then if we choose a new relationship, what kind do we want this time around?


M=42 XH=44
M=18 T=21
D14 D11
Divorced 4/2012
XH marries OW 6/2014.