"oh you can't come, no problem, I'll see you later I need my caffeine fix", or any other way you can show you will go without her.
I like this much better - it's not as desperate sounding to me. But drop the "oh you can't come, no problem" bit Say 'Sure, I'll see you later, I need my caffeine fix'.
It sounds like she is making sure you are still available - for her own ego. Maybe it's best to remain aloof to her as she is feeling you out a bit - expecting you to say 'Oh there is ALWAYS room for you'. Don't bite that worm!
Originally Posted By: greenblue90
This may sound crazy but I believe that if a guy is there too much, he looks desperate, weak, and like he has no options. If he tries to hard it'll be pursuing and she'll lose interest.
YES! Don't be there too much or asking her out for coffee! Make her do it! I know it's in your plans to get the marriage back on track, but SHE needs to be doing the pursuing at this point.
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Say 'Sure, I'll see you later, I need my caffeine fix'. 