Oh Goody! I barely survived my two boys teen years....

I was re-reading the spew emailed to me today by OW. One thing is clear. She really wants me to know my H hates me. And the other thing that isn't clear is why she keeps giving me advise on moving on, letting go, blah, blah, blah.....

Clearly my H is not communicating to her what I am telling him. Which at this point is plainly me accepting that our marriage is over. Me not pursuing him in any way. Me pointedly sitting in a different room from him at night.

I do still eat some meals with him, but have cut way back on that. I am easing out of the picture. Maybe I should be more dramatic, but why? I am pretty much doing what I want.

Tonight, with all the breakup songs on American Idol I was glad I was a couple rooms away. That kind of thing is when I go into complete snarky comment mode. I probably couldn't have contained myself when they were singing "Somebody That I Used to Know".


Me 57 XH 58 Sons age 32 & 27 M:32
D final 9/12
Bought 10 Acres and Living the Dream!