JC-I have read through most of your stitch and first want to say hang in there buddy. Our stitches are not the same but they are similar in ways. I know the frustrations of sharing your S and the emotional roller-coaster that you are on as I'm on it as well.
You are making great progress. Listen to Chatterbug and others on their advice. You need to detach from your W and let her experience the new path she has chosen. Trust me I know how hard it is as I'm still working on it myself.
My S is 2 nearly 3 and dealing with our whole situation/pending D. My W frustrates me sometimes with her random calling to talk to our S which confuses him. I need to set boundaries myself and so do you. Hang in there, work on you, and GAL. Your S will be fine with you and with her. You know deep down inside you both love him.
YOUR ARE NOT ALONE. We are all here to help and provide support from a real perspective of going through it or have already gone through it. Take care.
Me:29 W:28 S:2 M: 5 years Bomb: 7-26-11 Separated: 8-20-11 EA w/ multiple OMs W filed 1/2012
