Saw H today at work. He started chatting w/ me. We talked about some stuff that has been on my mind. He said he decided not to move home a couple weeks ago because he doesn't want to be controlled. I said all I can do is show him & he has to trust me, just like he said I have to trust him too.

He started talking about letting his brother-in-law buy our futon. I asked what he would sleep on then (he has futon with him where he is living) & he said in a bed. I asked where (thinking I knew where this was leading...it was an easygoing conversation) & he said "with you in our house, if I can ever stop being such a d*ck!" Somedays he really surprises me He can go from saying he never wants to come back to acting like he is in a course of a conversation.

But, at least we talked some today. I am just going to try & stay patient & not push - let him contact me etc.

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