Thanks, Autumn. It's tough to find time for myself with work and our son, but I'll keep trying. I just need to find some hobbies that don't require a lot of time...
Figgeroni- great post. Both my wife and I have talked in the past about the lack of real time we get to spend with our son. It's very tough. I want to do all the things you describe. But by the time we pick him up from daycare we have 1.5 hours for dinner and then it's bedtime. I wish the days were longer so I could spend more time with him.
I scheduled an appointment with a marriage therapist for next week. While looking at her website I happened to notice she recommends Michele Weiner-Davis' books. I hope my wife will still be receptive to the idea of counseling by next week.
M34 W35 S5 S2 T10 M6 on/off over the years including her A Recently- Nov 2015 bomb Nov 2015-Feb 2016 Reconciling Feb bomb March-April Reconciling May - bomb Mid-May I tell her I'm done