Quote: I just feel the he is taking advantage of me - he can't be bothered to deal w/ these issues but feels he can walk in here & use computer etc when I am not here.
slt,
Ironic, I was just reading your post, when you posted to me; will go read. Forgive me, for not knowing the arrangement? Is he living at home? Either way, tell him you feel he is taking advantage. He may get mad, but you will know you have been honest, or you will drive yourself crazy with anger and resentment. And if he does not live there, establish ground rules. It is unlikely you could go to his place if he were not there, so you say he is to respect your space.
We are trying so to be careful and not make waves, even when our WAS are treating us this way. For our own peace, we must be honest and change the dynamic and how we act and react.
