Yes it does get easier and you would probably feel much better knowing he does miss you. He just hasn't had the chance yet. But when you stop doing it all, he will or might become upset that you stopped. But this is what he is wanting and you are so willing to give it to him. But after a while of doing it for himself he will realize all you have done for him.

Not to do it meanly of course but to give him the space that he is wanting. You make yourself busy. Not willing to drop everything to do what he is needing. Yes give some so as not to cut off all contact but make him more responsible for some things in his life.

You make it look as if your going on with your life like he is stating he wants.

It seems he hasn't let go and is so wishy washy on some thing about getting back together.

And its because he probably knows how bad you want him back. That your available when he needs you and will take him back on short notice. but when it comes to doing it he gets so scared off for some reason.

I know you can do this. Just remember to not take the bait soon....let it linger for a while. Make him be the chaser. One goal could be to go out on a date with him. Make him court you. What could you do to make him ask you out?


Joyful