So funny, Wendy. "Your" OW is so much weirder than mine. She actually thinks that she has more rights to your H, than you, his wife, who he made vows to. I bet he wasn't rich when you married him, and not now either, so the "meal ticket" comment is just helium in her brain. You have been through thick and thin with your H, and now, after many years, he thinks it's okay to just dump you and go with someone else without so much as a "thanks for the good times". And OW thinks you did this on purpose ... what a dill head. Hilarious!!!!

Detachment is good, isn't it?!

I am not even going to give you a 2x4 re the asking H a "few questions". Since you're not standing per se, it may be a good idea to ask them while you still have him in the house. His comment about this being a "very painful period for him and too hurt to talk" underlines his MLC status. He has no inkling of the hurt and pain you experienced when he dumped you. I bet it was tempting to tell him, "s*cks, doesn't it?"


Me:57 H:52 M:28 Got another lawyer last year and filed.
D35,S/D twins28,D22
EA4/04 End? Who knows?
"Life is like a mirror. Smile at it and it smiles back at you." — Peace Pilgrim