remind yourself of the things that make YOU you!!!

you have a little bubba right now...

be a great dad to him...focus on that

you can not control your wife or her actions or emotions

only yours

so...

take some control back in your life

if she is not telling you when she is coming home
assume she won't be there for supper or bedtime and love the sh*t out of getting to do them yourself because some day that buba won't be a bubba anymore and snuggles will go the way of footied jammies and you don't want to look back and regret not living those moments to the fullest

make daddy and me suppers...take your son out for ice cream afterward...go feed ducks...get in some quality time

take an ECFE class for fathers and sons (they will be coming up soon for father's day) so much fun or enroll in daddy and me swim class...get in shape and spending quality time with your son

there is nothing more attractive than a confident man
nothing sexier than a doting father

be those things for yourself

if she notices...bonus!!!