Talked with H today. He told me he doesn't think things are going to work between us. So he basically ended it. He wants to get together to figure out our finances and how we're going to make this R work for our kids.

My son told me today that he did see OW this while he was with my H. So I know that he has continued to see her. However, he stated that he hasn't slept with her again. But now that he's told me what he wants, I'm sure that will start to continue.

I am devastated. The biggest pit in my stomach. I want to just be numb to the world.

All I could say to him the whole time was... ok. Nothing more.

Me: 32 H: 32
M 9 yrs
#1 D7 #2 S5 #3 D2
Bomb 8/12/11
H moved out 8/14/11
PA started w/H & OW in 1/12 - found out 3/24/12
Got my own place 8/25/12
H & OW move in together 9/15/12
Still married.