I haven't had the urge to do the double (or single) flip off since January (thankfully), so I am really walking the "treat as Jesus/Buddha would" line these days.
Books aside from DB and DR... I really like and found helpful for background info the book Kimmerz suggested to me, What Women want men to Know...maybe try her women about men version (if their is one...)? If you look at my sitch I listed an e-book about affairs and why...the 5 LL's, Conscious Loving, etc...most helpful though, were/are the people here and their sitchs and advice, help to others and to me...I really found sandi2's posts eye opening and helpful.
But for at home reading (the R books are read at work after hours... ...I love sci-fi/fantasy/alternative history/quantum physics as a means of escape (and tons at the thrift store for pennies, so is cost-effective). I also dove into Plutarch, Tolstoy, lots of poetry and other "heady" books to get my monkey mind engaged elsewhere and crowd out my sitch... Whatever gets your mind occupied ELSEwhere I think is important, so maybe avoid romance novels....
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In the depths of winter, I finally learned that within me there lay an invincible summer. - Albert Camus
Uncertainty is the very condition which impels people to unfold their powers.-Eric Fromm
...I love sci-fi/fantasy/alternative history/quantum physics as a means of escape (and tons at the thrift store for pennies, so is cost-effective). I also dove into Plutarch, Tolstoy, lots of poetry and other "heady" books to get my monkey mind engaged elsewhere and crowd out my sitch... 
