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JC. You need to think deep down inside if that is a game changer.

Only you can make that choice.

And when you do. Work towards a point where your calm and can think about it again.

You do have control. Over yourself.

You need to have a stable place to live when your not with your boy.

You need to work on yourself.

You need to improve yourlife.

The spousal support. You need to see how it is affected if you get a job.

And you need to keep to the temporary visitation order. Do not give up any of your time.

You will need to set boundaries here for her and for you.

Only contact her when it is an emergency.

Only communicate with her when it is an emergency.

As you need quiet and peace to calm down and let your emotions run their course.

So next time.

Say.

I have decided that it would be best in my interests that we follow the visitation rights to the letter. If you have an issue where you cannot take care of our son please let me know in advance.

Then leave it at that.