Hi, (((RoRo))). So sorry about how you're feeling. Glad that you are communicating with him better and learning more about things he had been reluctant to say before. That is good.

You hurting now - that's why DB says not to do temperature checks. But I understand the feeling of needing to know.

Do you think your temper had anything to do with why he wouldn't say things he needed to say years ago? When he said them now were you able to show him that you can listen and understand him? (like the ow can?) You can do this. Be someone he can talk to. The fact that he said all he did last night, it hurt, but it is a good sign.

When they say nothing, that is not good. Not as painful, but the M breakdown is still happening. That's my world.

((((more hugs for you)))) comfort yourself today, maybe a nice cocktail out on that balcony you have, if it's not too cold out for that.

Adinva 51, S20, S18
M24 total
6/15/11-12/1/12 From IDLY to H moving out
9/15/15-3/7/17 From negotiating SA to final D at age 50
5/8/17-now: New relationship with an old friend
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Happiness is a warm puppy.