They see what they want to see in the OW. Their fantasy of their soulmate and a woman who will truly love them for who they are..... My Ml'er wanted to "rescue" his damsel in distress. He got his damsel and now he is in distress.


Me: 46 H:44
Together: 25 years
Married: 20 years
Separated: 11-30-06 Divorced 12-21-07
OW: EA began 2005
PA began end of 2006
3 children,20, 16, 6
ex asked for forgiveness
01/16/11