waiting for the other shoe

[labug]

nd, if you click on my name in red in the left panel of this message, it will bring up a drop-down menu. The last selection is view posts. Click that and pages of my posts will come up. You can find my first post there.

Also my last post on my thread is a pretty good summation of where we are now, but in a nutshell, we live apart, until this past Sun I hadn't seen him since Thanksgiving, we are cordial, we get along, he still wears his wedding band, there is no OW.

Just about 6 weeks ago, I had gone completely no contact.

This learning process has been instrumental in saving me, my marriage may not be saved.

But I'm OK with that now.